Meet @frontreauxseat; she's 24 and has cerebral palsy.
Are you currently in an intimate relationship?
How would describe your sexuality? Your intimate relationship philosophy?
I am not currently intimate, I haven’t found a partner yet, which I believe is due to my disability. Dating in your twenties is already a struggle, and I feel like my wheelchair is another ‘thing’ that makes it even more challenging.
I have been attracted to, or have had romantic feelings for, people all across the gender spectrum, but I just say I’m bisexual because it’s something most people understand and I don’t always feel comfortable giving a lengthy explanation of my sexual orientation.
I grew up in a religious family, and I’ve pretty much abandoned all ideas of “purity” and waiting until marriage, but there is still a part of me that believes that sex is sacred and I don’t really believe in random hookups. I think I will wait to sleep with someone until I am in a relationship.
Name one part of your body you’re insecure about.
Hahaha definitely my ass! Which is ironic because I sit in a chair 24/7. Big booties are the “thing” right now, but I can’t do squats and have cellulite everywhere.
How often do you think about sex?
Like 3-4 times a week I guess
How often do you have sex?
I’m a virgin lol
How often would you like to have sex?
Like…4-5 times a week lol
What would you like to try sexually that you haven’t?
I have never given a blow job and I think it would be a good intro to sexual activity
What topic do you want to discuss for chat?
I would like to talk about how disabled folks are infantilized, not seen in a romantic light in media, and how that hinders us from having sexual experiences .
So, there it is. We'll be discussing "how disabled people are infantilized" with @frontreauxseat Friday, March 1st at 7 Eastern US. I hope to see you there.